Our bonding with the domestic cat is the result of a remarkable interspecies human-to-cat relationship. We can’t expect the cat to express their appreciation for our loving caregiving in our way. They show it differently; indirectly in ten ways as illustrated in the infographic below.
It is nice to remind ourselves that this is a true and wonderfully successful interspecies relationship. We are so used to it that we sometimes forget that we are a close companion to another species of animal. And an animal who is close to their wildcat ancestor in terms of behaviours.
Here is a conversation with AI:
Question: How do domestic cats show their appreciation for what we do for them?
Domestic cats express their appreciation in several unique and sometimes subtle ways, reflecting their independent yet affectionate nature. Here are some common signs of a cat’s appreciation:
- Purring
Purring is a universal sign of contentment in cats. If your cat purrs while sitting near you, being petted, or after you’ve done something they like (like feeding them), it’s a sign they are happy and grateful. - Head-Butting (Bunting)
Cats have scent glands on their heads and faces. When they rub or nudge you with their head, they are marking you as part of their territory and showing trust and affection. - Slow Blinking
A cat’s slow blink is a sign of trust and love. If your cat looks at you and blinks slowly, it’s their way of saying they feel safe and happy with you. - Kneading
Kneading (making “biscuits”) with their paws on your lap or a soft surface is a behavior cats carry from kittenhood, associated with comfort and affection. If your cat kneads you, it shows they associate you with security and warmth. - Bringing Gifts
While it might be less appreciated by humans, cats sometimes bring “gifts” like toys, objects, or even prey to their owners as a sign of appreciation and sharing their “hunt” with you. - Following You Around
A cat that shadows you as you move around the house is showing its attachment and interest in being near you, a sign of trust and appreciation for your companionship. - Exposing Their Belly
A cat that lies on its back and shows you its belly is in a vulnerable position, signaling trust and comfort. If they let you pet their belly (rare for many cats), it’s an even greater sign of appreciation. - Gentle Nibbles or Licks
Grooming behaviors, like licking or even gently nibbling you, mimic how cats show affection to other cats. It’s their way of bonding with you. - Sitting or Sleeping Near You
If your cat chooses to spend time close to you, whether it’s sitting on your lap, curling up next to you, or sleeping near you, it’s a sign they feel secure and appreciate your presence. - Vocalizations
Cats often develop unique ways of “talking” to their owners, with specific meows or chirps. If your cat meows to greet you, get your attention, or express contentment, it’s their way of communicating appreciation.
Recognizing and responding to these behaviors helps strengthen your bond with your cat, as their appreciation often reflects the care and affection you provide.
Question: These are behaviour which demonstrate a close connection but are they showing appreciation?
Great question! While many of these behaviors reflect a close connection, it’s important to clarify that cats may not “show appreciation” in a human-like sense. Instead, their behaviors are expressions of trust, affection, and comfort, which stem from their positive experiences with you as shown in the infographic.
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