Does your cat want to join you in the bathroom?

There are three things in a bathroom that a cat likes… (a) you (b) your scents and (c) for some cats: water. I’ll deal with the first one last.

Cat joins you in bathroom
Cat joins you in bathroom. Photo (modified by Michael) by Tobyotter
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Despite the endless discussions about how cats dislike water, lots of cats like it. Some cats actually join their human in the shower and some jump into the bathtub. Some cats jump into a bathtub after you have showered and lick the water drops that remain. Finding water is more fun than being given water. This is about the wild cat within.

The bowl of a toilet is attractive to many cats. When the toilet is flushed lots of fresh mains-supplied water gushes out. This is probably interesting to a cat and encourages drinking from it. The residual scents would be an attraction rather than a repulsion.

I always remember Kathrin Stucki of A1 Savannahs saying that Magic – I think it was Magic – joined her in the shower. Magic is the world’s best known cat and the tallest domestic cat. Kathrin is a very attractive woman (dare I say it). The pair must have made a startling image together in the shower. Shame there is no picture of it 😉

Poo

Yes, we have to get to that subject and, of course: wee. This is where nature meets human sensibilities. Whereas cats are very relaxed about poo and wee, being, as it is, a natural and important part of their lives through scent detection, humans shy away from the subject at all times.

However, if you are in the bathroom sitting on the toilet, does your cat want to come in? Better still, does she come in because the door is open?

Although I haven’t checked the Internet recently on this subject, I would expect there to be a decent number of stories about cats joining their human companion in the bathroom when the person is on the toilet.

This has to be about…smell or let’s call it “scent”, so much more polite ;). It appears that our cat knows the scent of our poo and labels us with that scent. When we are on the toilet – loo, john, lavatory – we are scent marking. If our cat sees us as a cat, when we go to the john we are scent marking from our cat’s perspective. Scent marking is a statement of ownership of territory. Cats scent mark with feces, urine and scratching (ground and vertical objects).

As we are related to our cat (from her perspective), it seems that our scent marking attracts our cat. Why? That is the 64,000 dollar question. The answer is probably that our cat comes to a place that is safe and secure and which she considers her home and territory. The scent we make with our poo signals that, saying, “this area is ours and it is safe”. That is attractive to a cat. That is my theory having thought about it as I write. A visitor may have a better, or additional, theory, which I would welcome.

Wee

Wee is also a favorite substance for scent marking territory. The same theory would apply as for feces.

Personal

My personal experiences are typical. My Binnie would like to come into the bathroom when I  was on the loo. The door would be open as I was alone at home. Charlie rarely comes in.  I don’t recall Missie or Boo Boo coming in. Not all cats are bothered about joining us in the bathroom. It is a personal thing. A likeness for it may be associated with the confidence or anxiety of a cat. In other words be dependent on personality trait.

Kevin’s Felix

Here’s Felix doing his bathroom trick after Kevin has showered:

Felix watching water droplets
Photo by Kevin Roche

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27 thoughts on “Does your cat want to join you in the bathroom?”

  1. Ozzie, Dorothy and Leah? My Michael, when I was goign potty, would always sit, just without of range–and then! when the toilet would flush, HE WAS ALWAYS right there, watching that last gurgle…then… he would POUNCE! like there was nothing going stop him, from trying to retrieve what ever. 🙂

    I had to shut his brain down, by scratching him under the jaw…ooh-ooh ooh! –and just above it towards his mascara line on his eye. He always succumbs to this/ And then, i can put him to sleep (maybe he was there already)…right paw draped over my knee…and he is out…dreaming sweet, wonderful kitty dreams… now, I’m asleep….[

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  2. Tootsie likes to follow me around, but observes me from a distance.

    She sits just outside the open bathroom door, and stares at me with an unwavering gaze when I’m on the loo. I finally figured out that she is “a very polite cat”. She comes in to get scritches only when I invite her in- “Tootsie, where’s my girl… come say hello”.

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  3. when i had my cat “felix”, he used to love to sit on my lap while i was going poo

    That would have made a great picture although it would have been an invasion of your privacy 😉

    I am pleased you have a picture of him watching water. If you email it to me I’ll add it. You have my email address but just in case here it is:

    mjbmeister[at]gmail.com

    change [at] for @

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  4. when i had my cat “felix”, he used to love to sit on my lap while i was going poo,i never knew why and when i was done doing my thing and flushed the toilet,he would watch the poo swirl around until it disappeared down the drain.it was pretty comical.he also used to sit on the edge of the tub and watch me take a shower.when i was done showering he would then hop into the tub and watch the remaining water droplets go towards and down the drain.it was like a show for him.i have a picture of him doing this but dont know how to attach it to my comment.

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  5. I have to agree with you Michael when I go for my morning wee I am joined by no less than 3 cats. Ozzie Alfie and Honey. Ozzie is the largest of our cats and assaults the bathroom door by standing on his hind legs and shoving it open like some well planned military assault which usually leaves me being unceremoniously bashed on the knees while I’m still half asleep (our bathroom isn’t very big!) He then strides in as if he needs to know exactly what I’m doing and how long its going to take before I go downstairs and feed him.

    After his assault on the door he is quickly followed by Alfie and Honey all with the same expression.

    Nope you can’t have a peaceful wee in our house!

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    • I think in your case you are assaulted in the bathroom because you have just got up and it is your cats’ first chance of the day to request breakfast. In other words they are in the bathroom because you’re there. The scents etc. are probably an added extra.

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