A man holding a cat tenderly is sexy to a woman. This sexiness particularly applies to a man who is mentally and physically strong and in a position of authority. That is the theme of today’s discussion.
Man + cat = sexy picture.
So, what is behind this? Well, I need a woman to tell me but in the meantime I’ll do some guessing. If a woman wants to write an article on the subject you can use the form on the home page. I’d love to hear. Or leave a long comment which I can convert to an article.
The reason why some, or a lot of women, find a man with a cat sexy is because a lot women love men who are tender and caring, who have a soft side and who are confident enough to show it.
Man + Cat = sexy because it shows the man is confident with himself. It shows he is confident enough to be himself and does not need to play the macho games. He is relaxed in his own skin.
Above all other qualities, women like confidence in a man because it means he is better able to survive and protect his woman. Ultimately the attractiveness of a man to a woman comes down to raw, basic drives such as survival and procreation (sex!).
Tenderness in a man is also a very useful and attractive personality characteristic to a woman. It is personalty trait that helps stabilise the male/female relationship. It indicates that the man will listen to his woman. It suggests that the man will not try and bully his woman and impose his thoughts and ideas on her but respect her. A man who has a tender side will be more likely to keep the relationship stable and longer lasting. That appeals to a woman on the basis of survival and procreation.
Women like to chat about “people subjects”. A man who likes cats is more likely to be receptive to talking to his woman on subjects that interests her because he is more likely to be more giving.
Finally, a man who likes cats also likes animals. It shows that he has the wisdom to realise that humans have a duty to care for the world’s animals because they were here before us. The world is as much for the animals as it is for the human. We can’t live without them. A wise man knows that and respects animals.
It is for these reasons that a woman finds a man who likes cats and tenderly handles cats, sexy. Discuss.
Associated: Real men love cats.
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Ha! Am I setting myself up here, somehow? It is worthwhile though, don’t you think so? Please respond, PoC potential members.
With our membership to PoC, the small donations from those comments could be billed monthly?
Here is the link from lovemeow.com:
http://lovemeow.com/2013/05/stray-kitten-finds-police-officer-to-go-home-to/
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Hi Caroline. I did notice that. I sort of like the idea. It is doable. My idea was that “members” of PoC could nominate a charity and PoC would pay a monthly direct debit to the charity say about $3 per month in perpetuity or as long as the PoC was running. That is my current idea. The difficulty with my idea is electing the members. Who is to be a member? That will cause problems 😉
So I tend to prefer the Love Meow idea of 5 cents per comment with say $10 for an article, something like that. I would like to reward the regulars and the 5 cents per comment does seem to do that because they make more comments.
Officer Boyes is a nice looking young lad, not fanciable to me but I have a lot of respect for him because he isn’t so obsessed with being a macho man that he feels unable to show his soft side, that makes him more of a man in my opinion. I agree that cat loving women find cat loving men desirable, one of the things I loved about my late husband John was his absolute love of all things feline. When we met I had a special cat, Felix, who was very important to me and used to being number one man in my life, John realised this and made sure Felix never felt jealous or left out and didn’t lose his status as number one man at all, we were all heartbroken when Felix died, including his Uncle John. He also worshipped his own special little cat, Popsy and in some ways it was a good thing he died before she did because it would have broken his heart to lose her. I can’t understand why some men think it makes them look tough to say they dislike cats, in simple terms they are fools. Michael you are a real man, you’re not afraid to admit you love cats because you know that doing so in no way diminishes your masculinity.
Just look at the way that lovely man is holding the little kitten and in my opinion kindness and caring are far more important than sexy.
I’d rather have the ugliest unsexiest man friend in the world than any handsome one who wasn’t kind to cats.
Character is more important that appearance. Yes. Completely agree. And being kind to cats is the most important personality trait 😉
Here is an update on the Baltimore police officer:
Notice the background. Neat!
Yes, despite the stories about police officers shooting dogs and cats etc. there are some great policemen who love animals.
Well, did Michael interpret your comment to mean that you do not find Officer Boyer particularly handsome? I don’t know, but I do know this…
That man is as sexy and handsome a man as my own mate. He has no problem whatsoever letting his affection for that kitten shine through! That is as sexy as it gets. [my humble opinion] 😉
Clarification: any man who exhibits this behavior is truly handsome, beautiful and sexy in my eyes and heart. I can’t see them any other way. It makes me feel tingly all over when I see this trait in men. (Not that I would ever be tempted to leave my man’s side. It just gives me such a good feeling to see it in other men–makes me want to nurture them; if that comes across as somewhat taboo know that I don’t mean it that way at all! 🙂
I am pleased you agree the general idea that men who like cats are likeable to women. That is the general point.
Yes. That was understood. Which is why I was reiterating that. But, I think that we could take it much further than “the general point?” Maybe? I very simply, was using my “maternal instincts” to accentuate that general idea. 😉
I can’t say as the man with the kitten in the picture is sexy to me, but maybe he is to younger women.
What appeals to me is that he is obviously a kind, gentle and caring man who doesn’t think it unmanly to care about animals.
Both you and Rose have a different slant on this, which is great. I like that.
I hope there are a few more comments from women so see what the general trend is on this subject.