Being Alone With Your Cat to Feel Better

Today I have spent more than 2 hours with my cats Pinky, 50 and Jakie (the new arrival) and all three were happy with me and they were nourished by me. The other cats from my FERAL COLONY visited my terrace and had their due right of food, water and milk.

My wife is sick since October. She is not used to the hard cold winter and has a cough so that we have to be closer to her, too. The doctor has given her antibiotics and other medication but it is sensible to use some really warm clothing instead of depending on meds only. Meds can cure you but what if no care is added with them? No result then!

I have big responsibilities here, Mom, dad, cats, three daughters, wife and students.

Its life! This is how it is and perhaps this is how it should be to a person like me. A spiritual man??? Aaah very hard and tough track but I will not get tired until I am OVER.

I can still remember what my spiritual teacher once said, yes every word is in my heart and spirit, he said,

“When you are dead tired, when you feel broken, and no human can help you in this kind of a situation, you must seek some help from nature, be alone, meditate, go away from every one, take a deep breath, and if possible go to the innocents who really need you and who can share your hard time without speaking a word, just with love, for love and by love.”

I just sat on a chair outside in the cold, and got LAILA on my arms. She had taken a bath with Khadija and here is what I had, THE LOVE, which is precious for me and for my kitten 5 weeks old LAILA.

Thanks for reading my feelings, my friends. Special thanks to Michael Broad who have been there every time when I needed to share my articles on POC. <3

18 thoughts on “Being Alone With Your Cat to Feel Better”

  1. The author of the best comment will receive an Amazon gift of their choice at Christmas! Please comment as they can add to the article and pass on your valuable experience.
  2. Ahsan, I like the sound of your spiritual teacher – a truly wise man indeed.

    I work in a stressful environment, but I take great pleasure in feeding the wild birds during my lunch break. I find it very calming to watch the crows and magpies who are regular visitors. The crows are particularly intelligent and now recognise me before I even put out food.

    There is a peace in appreciating nature that’s hard to find elsewhere.

  3. I noticed that but could realize that it was a mistake.

    Actually I am a teacher of English Class for upto graduation 😉

  4. Thank you DEE, YESSSSsssss, you are a real cat lover and a loving MOTHER for your cats and children. I had no doubt about that and today I have a strong view about you regarding this aspect <3 <3 <3

  5. Thank you for your reply, Michael.
    I am sorry

    but I want to clear here that why I turned the discussion towards human beings is to clarify that if a man who claims to be a cat caretaker (as me) must firstly start from handling his own species in a way that his affectionate towards the other species may not differ.

    I have a theory (my own, ofcourse) that if we are not forwarding our love towards the humanity, all claim for non-human forces/ species goes in fake.

    Being a strict follower of Islamic spirituality (for myself I mean, not for others to follow) I have a afirm believe that love is the only WEAPON that can conquer lands over lands, skies over skies and the most deepest of all HEART of any species which Allah Subhanahu has created as a home for himself.

    I can still remember the verse of Torat OLD TESTAMENT when MOSES came back first time talking to GOD, and SAFORA asked him that he has seen the GOD. He replied very clearly, no…no one can see him … he is light and that light exist in every heart. I meant the saying of MOSES for myself that GOD is light of LOVE n CARE and that light exists in every soul n HEART.

    But I think that there is a lack of exposure in everyone of us, and we must step ahead towards this. <3 😀

  6. I have not done that kind of “love action” sadly. It is good. It is very good and the way it should be.

    Sadly, my family was quite disjointed. My parents are dead. My father was cold and my mother was a bit crazy.

    My sister is like a stranger.

    There it is. Not a great family and not warm.

    I would have loved for my father to be have been warm and emotional with me, giving me a hug and even a kiss. I wish he had told me that he loved me. He never did.

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