This is a video from a feral cat rescuer Maria Tories on TikTok. TikTok allows people to download videos. In this instance I have trimmed the video slightly to reduce the file size. The educational aspect of the video is that we see a plastic fork being used by Maria to stroke the head of the feral cat who has been taken in from the outside to a cage inside her home where she is gradually introducing this cat to human life. This cat was a long-term feral. You can see than in his/her appearance; sort of beat up and messy.
And the safest way to start this process is to stroke with a fork or some other similar object which allows the socialiser to touch without using their hands for safety reasons. And what’s nice about the video is that Maria stops using the plastic fork and starts using her hands without the cat knowing about it. This is the transition from not being able to touch a feral cat to using the hands. The start of a long journey. The cat will feel the hands. A different sensation. It is the start in building up trust.
You can see the slightly calmer facial expression and behaviour of the cat after being stroked by the fork followed by the hand. The treatment is working already which is nice to see. And I also like to see her using the back of her hand as this creates a softer form of touch while at the same time protecting the fingers. The back of the hand is less sensitive than the fingertips. This is a precautionary measure in case the cat suddenly loses his nerve and strikes out.
The big word when socialising feral cats, as I’m sure you recognise, is “patience”. Everything is done slowly, progressively and gently. Feral cats distrust any other animal except some cats in their colony including the human animal because they are potentially dangerous to them. And they are correct. Humans are dangerous to feral cats. You have to overcome this distrust and it takes time depending upon the cat’s personality.
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Sometimes it might take a few months and other times it might take 18 months. And I suspect that you never quite end up with a fully-fledged domestic cat. Yes, they are domesticated and they make a good cat companion but I think it is fair to say that you will see moments when a hint of their feral cat upbringing comes to the top.
Some more on socialistion….
Do cats need to socialize with other cats in order to be happy and healthy?
Test that your cat is fully domesticated when interacting with you
Presence of mother during socialisation of kittens can be a positive or negative influence
Example of using positive reinforcement to socialise a cat (video)
Awesome FIV senior TNR cat story. She socialized him with a wooden spoon!
Woman’s Lifelong Project. Socializing a Blind Feral Cat
What does raised underfoot mean?
Socialized and Domesticated Feral Cat Prefers Cats to Humans
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I ended up with a alot I mean alot feral cats 2 mother and daughter become very attached to me. They were pregnant. I’m supposed to be a horse rescue. I have gotten really sick with a parasite and I already have mrsa from taking care of my mom. Because hospital didn’t. Anyway my dogs and me are sick. Can’t tell me anything please my keep going to er and know one will see me except er. Any information you can give me would be greatly appreciated. I am at the end of the rope. Life’s not supposed to be like this.
Lisa, I am concerned. You sound as if you are in a bad way and need help. I’d like to help but I am not sure I can because I need more information and secondly, I don’t live in the US. I think you live in the US. Is that correct? I am sorry to hear of your problems. You need to get well first and foremost. That must be the priority as you can’t improve your life until you have the strength and health to achieve it. Focus on yourself. You may have to relinquish your cats to a rescue and temporarily stop being involved in horse rescue to give yourself a window to get well.