Another photo of my semi-feral rescue cat who I am fostering. He is snoozing and becoming domesticated.
I have cared for him for about 6 days. He hid under the sideboard for about 3 days when I first got him (except for eating food at night). He has come on well.
A major advantage I have is that I am retired so I have all the time in the world – except for work in the site and the usual household chores – to socialize him.
Thanks DW. I pleased you like to see him relaxed and confident. I guess it goes without saying that kittens thrive when loved and treated tenderly and with respect. It has been quite intensive. I have never played with a cat so much. Several hours per day. I am lucky to have the time to provide it.
I didn’t think he’d come on this fast. I was expecting months really. But I am with him all day every day. That speeds things up. This morning he is racing around the apartment like a true kitten getting into all kinds of problems and creating chaos – love it.
Thanks Rudolph. If I keep him I am failure as a foster carer. That is the downside. But, I don’t think I can let him go. Too emotionally attached.
Michael you have done wonders with Gabriel, for him to trust you so soon is nothing short of amazing. That photo of how relaxed he is, says it all! I don’t think you will ever be able to part with him and if I was you I wouldn’t even try. You are a match made in Heaven, you love and need each other. It takes a real man like you and Ahsan to admit to being soft hearted about cats!
Thanks Cindy. I like fostering. I want to continue. However, I don’t think I am going to be able to let Gabriel go because I love him too much already. I know this is my weakness really. I know he’d be okay in a well chosen new home but I need him. A foster carer has to distance him/herself from the emotional element of the cat/human relationship. I am not sure I can do that because I am too soft-hearted (for vulnerable creatures). For humans who try to abuse me I am hard.
Exciting news that Gabriel is progressing so well. Once they socialize to you, they don’t revert back to semi-feral when adopting out. They are not any more cautious than any other domesticated cat that is going into a new home. There is always an adjustment period while they get acclimated to their new environment.
Please do not give up fostering. Fostering saves lives and gets them ready to go to a new home. In the U.S., if it was not for fosters, the kill rate would be much higher than it already is. You are doing a wonderful job Michael. Keep it up!