This well-discussed topic lends itself very much to an infographic as the reasoning is very straightforward. It is a logical process which can be explained in a few words which is exactly what I have done in the infographic. There’s really almost nothing more to say except this:
Individual cats have preferences when it comes to being stroked. You have to learn to understand them through trial and error and always respect the cat. Do what they want and no more. Some cats have limits on being stroked and some cats might be twitchy about being stroked in certain places. You’ll know where they are if you are a first-time cat caregiver because your cat will tell you but it might hurt a little bit. 👍😸😻 No big deal.
This topic is also about handling cats. This too needs to be done with respect for the cat and in recognition that they are cats and not toddlers even though most good caregivers relate to the cats as little humans which is fine in terms of family live but it must be put aside when handling and general interactions.
And neither are cats babies. The baby cradling hold is not great for a feline. Some accept it. Some do not. Picking up a cat requires a technique which you can read about by clicking this link.
Flea combing your cat and generally combing and brushing your cat also mimics mother cat licking their offspring so it is well received by an adult cat for the reasons stated in the infographic.
The limitation here is not to pull on fur when it is matted. It goes without saying that brushing and stroking must be pleasant for the cat as if it is not the cat believes that their mother is hurting them which can lead to a weakening of the relationship.
Here is AI’s response to the below question
Is it true that cats have limits as to how long they are stroked? Yes, that’s absolutely true! Cats, unlike dogs, don’t necessarily crave constant petting. They communicate their tolerance level through body language (source: Battersea).
Here’s why there’s no one-size-fits-all answer for how long to pet a cat:
- Individual preferences: Some cats adore long petting sessions, while others prefer short bursts of attention.
- Past experiences: Kittens who were well-socialized with humans are more likely to enjoy petting as adults.
- Body language: Watch for signs your cat has had enough, like flicking their tail, flattening their ears, or swatting.
Here’s a tip: When petting your cat, use the “three-second rule.” Pause for three seconds after a stroke and see if they initiate contact again. If not, it’s a good time to stop.
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Petting aggression
This is when you go beyond the personal limits of your cat and/or induce a play response which effectively means biting your hand 🙀😢.
