This is a cute way to pop the difficult and nerve jangling question, “will you marry me?”…..
I had never thought of this. It would have made things easier for me, I think and it encourages men to like cats more (maybe). Your girlfriend comes around to your place and she loves your cat anyway.
You say nothing and she goes to stroke your cat. The question has been popped 😉 . But in a very gentle way and the question is indelibly linked to your cat so if the answer is yes, it should benefit your cat as she carried the message.
There are some potential pitfalls though. What if your cat was spooked for some reason and as the love of your life went to stroke her she smacked her hand with her paw and scratched her slightly?
The “pop” might turn to “crackle” and then shatter.
Really?? I never thought of that but I guess it depends on the Individual and if that person is going to Love and Accept the cat too. As should always involve the cat as if you’re with someone that loves Cats too esp if your a cat person or Dog person it important to involve them.
Did I miss something here? M, why don’t you and her cat just postulate it together, while she’s away? Please?
we all care so much for you!
Thanks Cal. Good technique.
Cat spooked her? No way! 😉 She would simply commence to soothing your cat. And then. Michael, you’re a trip. (just ask her to marry you at that point. lol!
A very sweet idea.
It would be a very sweet thing to do … animals can melt a heart and make you more open to things in that way. I’m single and not involved with anyone … likely never will be. But … it is still a very sweet way for a guy to pop the question in letting an adorable pet do the work for you.