Recommended: an agreement should be in place on who gets what when cohabitees (non-married) split up. Below the infographic is a draft agreement as a good starting point. It is not that big a deal but it provides peace of mind about something that might happen in the future. It is good for the cat or dog too. I guess the decision on who gets the cat should be based on one primary factor: which of the couple is preferred by the companion animal. 💖😎 Often a cat prefers one or the other. The decision should be altruistic and based on animal welfare.
Here is a draft agreement written by AI! It is very good. As good as if not better than I could do right now as a retired solicitor – retired 20 years ago.
COHABITATION AGREEMENT – PET CUSTODY
This Cohabitation Agreement (“Agreement”) is made and entered into on this ___ day of ________, 20, by and between:
[Partner 1’s Full Name], residing at [Full Address] (hereinafter referred to as “Partner 1”); and
[Partner 2’s Full Name], residing at [Full Address] (hereinafter referred to as “Partner 2”).
Collectively referred to as “the Parties.”
1. PURPOSE
The Parties acknowledge that they have acquired a pet cat, named [Cat’s Name], and wish to establish clear arrangements regarding ownership, care, and custody in the event of a relationship breakdown.
2. OWNERSHIP AND PRIMARY CUSTODY
- The Parties agree that [Primary Owner’s Name] shall retain full ownership of [Cat’s Name] if the relationship ends.
- The Primary Owner shall assume all financial responsibilities, including veterinary care, food, and other necessary expenses.
3. VISITATION RIGHTS
- If mutually agreed upon, the non-custodial Party may have visitation rights on the following basis:
- [e.g., One weekend per month, shared holidays, or other agreed terms]
- The custodial Party agrees to provide reasonable updates and photos upon request.
4. FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY
- During cohabitation, both Parties shall share the costs of pet care as follows:
- Veterinary expenses: [Split percentage or agreed responsibility]
- Food and supplies: [Split percentage or agreed responsibility]
- Pet insurance (if applicable): [Policyholder’s name and cost split]
- If the relationship ends, the Primary Owner assumes full financial responsibility.
5. RELOCATION
- The Primary Owner agrees to notify the non-custodial Party in case of relocation that affects visitation arrangements.
- If relocation prevents reasonable visitation, the Parties may renegotiate access terms.
6. DISPUTE RESOLUTION
- In case of a disagreement regarding pet custody, the Parties agree to seek mediation before pursuing legal action.
- Any legal disputes shall be resolved in the jurisdiction of [City/Country].
7. MODIFICATIONS
- Any changes to this Agreement must be made in writing and signed by both Parties.
8. SIGNATURES
By signing below, the Parties acknowledge that they have read and understood the terms of this Agreement and agree to be bound by its provisions.
[Partner 1’s Full Name]
Signature: _______________________
Date: _____________
[Partner 2’s Full Name]
Signature: _______________________
Date: _____________
Witness (if required)
Name: _______________________
Signature: _______________________
Date: _____________
