by Rico DiPucci
(San Marcos, CA USA)
Max was born on October 5th, 2000. He is a purebred Maine Coon and was de-clawed and neutered prior to my adopting him. He was a big cat at maturity, weighing a little over 18 pounds. He has always been an indoor cat who gets to roam freely on my elevated deck.
Max started losing weight about three years ago. I took him to the vet and they ran every test imaginable. They told me he was hyperthyroid and needed to be on medication for the rest of his life. I got him on the medication but they said I didn’t need to change his diet. He was eating dry food but got a little tuna every couple weeks.
He continued to lose weight and I took him back several times over the next year. They changed his diet to a different kind of dry food. He continued to lose weight. They wanted to run more tests. They had run all the tests before. I wanted a second opinion.
I took him to a vet that specialized in cats. When I scheduled his appointment I left a copy of all of Max’s medical records for their review.
They reviewed the records and ran more tests. He is NOT hyperthyroid and does not need the medication. After all the tests they ran they couldn’t tell me why he’s losing weight.
He keeps throwing up and can’t keep food down. No hairballs. And the little bit he can process is not nourishing him. He has lost ten pounds. I have tried everything including Beech Nut Baby Food which he seems to like. It’s a paste and it seems to sooth him. He is not in any pain that I can see but is weak and frail. He rallies then gets sicker. I’m not taking him back to the vet as I think I had him to the best. They ran all the tests and they just don’t know.
I am losing my little buddy and it breaks my heart. There seems to be nothing I can do. I think he is just holding on to life because of the love he gets. Is there anything anyone can think of that I might try?
Through tears,
Rico
I know exactly how you feel. It is the hardest thing cat caregivers do. Good luck and RIP.
Should I be with my cat when he is euthanized?
I understand how you feel Rico, I had to put my Rag Doll, and Main Coon Mix to sleep, I just could not watch Whiskers suffer anymore. He had a great appetite but gained no weight. He would no longer use the litter box. The vet took an Ex-Ray and my boo boo kitty had a tumor. We did not expect that, he was having trouble breathing they gave him two weeks. The vet suggested putting him to sleep, it was the hardest thing I had to do. I am still hurting from letting him go, but I did not want to watch him waste away. I miss him a lot! I cannot go through that again! It is too painful!
I know exactly how you feel, Bruce. I really do. When I lost my female cat in 1994 due to an accident on the road, I did not get over it for 20 years. I wish you the very best of luck. Thank you so much for sharing your feelings so honestly on this website. You must have had a very close relationship and the loss will be hard to bear and it will go on but it will fade. Take care.
I lost my sweet boy, Rocky, in April. It was the worst possible scenario to lose your best friend and there was nothing the vet could do. He was 37 in. long from the tip of his nose to the end of his tail. At his best, he weighed 30 lbs. When he died, he weighted 18 lbs. because he quit eating two days before I had to put him down. Now my heart is empty and I still cry when I think of losing my best friend.