By Dana
Intro by Michael: this is a comment from Dana in Silicon Valley, California, USA, about helping feral cats which I have upgraded to an article because I think it touches a nerve. It certainly does for me. As I see it, it is about modern life and how it is is more brutal and competitive and how it has distanced itself from nature.

“What does not fit in, is out.” I live in narcissistic superficial, trendy Silicon Valley and more and more I feel like the old timer with the old dog in “Of Mice and Men.” I have lived in my condo for over 13 years and no one ever ratted to the HOA (Homeowner Association – apartment management) that I fed 4 fixed feral cats (I have helped home so many others, those that could be homed).
Now I am down to 2 old toms cats. A new yuppie type couple moved in diagonally across from me and the guy is all polite and smiles while badgering me to stop feeding these last 2 because “its a public area and they bring fleas and disease.”
I moved one cat to another feeding area per his request but hoped that if I picked up food and other signs of his existence more carefully after the one on my door step it would be enough of an improvement in relations. No. Another knock on the door. Its not about picking up the food before nightfall or cleaning up the poop. Its the fleas – he insists the fleas are assaulting him every time he leaves his house.
My common sense feeling is a) I doubt it and b) it’s the OUTDOORS. It has bugs. And if it doesn’t stop “I’ll have to contact HOA”. He said it with a smile I’d like to wipe off his face.
Meanwhile, he owns a yappy dog that I have never complained about, because I am “live and let live”. But HOA will side with him, I’m nothing but an ageing outlaw “catwoman” – trying to survive in an over crowded area with manic values, that is building on every available postage stamp sized lot these days, bulldozers tearing up the earth for profit, adding to congestion for the sake of the almighty $ – while trying to offer food to two apparently worthless Toms.
This couple is everything I can’t stand about this valley: unforgiving, no heart. If its not young, sanitized, trendy and the latest and you’re not keeping up its “wrong”. That’s how I feel some days and I think feral cats have become a symbol of that, just like the aging dog in “Of Mice and Men.” Shoot it, euthanize it. It doesn’t belong, it serves no purpose, put it out of OUR misery (a feral cat survives for its own sake, not ours. I think that angers a lot of people who feel they should control everything in their environment. A cat does not exist for them).
And by the same token…if its human, price it out of the valley if it doesn’t fit in and conform. Ironically, trendy ole Silicon Valley has been and still is home to many industries (including military — though I’m not trying to wax political here!) that have done much to destroy the environment locally and abroad.
And yes, some of this money-making chaos includes indirectly the promoting of disease and fleas elsewhere! But its so much easier to focus on a poor frumpy old cat and make it the scapegoat isn’t it? Rather than look at our own part in the planets woes.
Dana
PS: I believe in fixing cats, and I prefer they live indoors these days for the sake of the birds – and they’re own safety, people are cruel – but the ferals are no more dirty and diseased then the rest of nature – nature is sloppy and beautiful and imperfect. Unfortunately this valley is all about money, shopping mauls, clogged dirty highways, smog, and owning the latest piece of manufactured shiny-ness to prove you’re own worthiness in the eyes of your fellow consumers. Those of us barely keeping up, such as little old ladies and cats are looked down on. Very sad.
Photo source: gkimagery.com – thanks.

Yuppies and dogs are why I love cats. Yuppies and dogs are both annoying! Why have a noisy dog when you can have a (mostly) quiet cat!! And I have to wonder if, based on another comment about the dog, of this yuppie does anything to prevent fleas at all. Maybe he uses green/ecofriendly products, which rarely do much at all but sure cost a lot!
I say the Good Lord screwed up when he let the apes out of the trees. I live in a rural area in the desert and have neighbors I would gladly do without. It’s all about them and what they think is correct. I wonder how they would fare if dumped in a remote area and had to fend for themselves. I don’t think they would last. People are getting so snotty and “I’m right and you’re wrong.” I have helped cats, dogs and birds survive in this area where they are dumped by those who have no morals or common sense. God help this planet!
Albert, I actually live in a nice, quiet senior mobile home park,in Northern California and fortunately most of the residents have cats or dogs or both, so I don’t have cat haters nearby. But they’re close. We had a cat recently shot with a hunting arrow. She got herself home, and after lots of vet bills, she’s surviving, but hopefully her guardians are now keeping her in.
My main stress is my landlord who lives with me. He’s not a cat hater, or I wouldn’t be able to rent a room, but he’s a hoarder,inconsiderate, and a manipulator. Fortunately, he’s gone much of the time, which helps. I stay in my room a lot, with my cat. It’s our only sanctuary, away from him.
I take my cat out with halter and leash every day. The last vet I went to was an hour away, but worth the drive. He only charged $200 for what other vets were asking $1000 for. He’s an old country vet who specializes in dental. He’s semi retired, and only takes referrals. He listened to me about drugs, and agreed. It was a first for me, after taking my cat to 4 other vets for second opinions.
Sorry there is no editing facility in comments 🙂
Thanks for commenting. It is real. You can see her comment on this page:
https://pictures-of-cats.org/two-reasons-why-some-people-hate-feral-cats.html#comment-678143
I feel for you Sandra. I actually am actively looking for another area where I’d like to move to… and I’m considering so many factors, whether it’s cat-friendly, affordable (I also live meagerly; drive a small ’91 pickup and a ’97 Ford Escort, and shop at thrift stores), and a decent climate… possibly all the way to rural where the sounds and congestion of the city are only a memory – including complaining cat-haters like your neighbor. It would have to be within driving distance to a cat-friendly veterinarian though.